Good evening guys how you are doing today? I'm wishing my blog readers to have a festive and stable mood today. Because it is damn not good if we are holding our anger but at the same time pushing our tolerances and consideration into account. So here i come to write something about what i see is lacking in our mundane routine nowdays. It is common senses.
I'm not good in telling stories..unless it is very charming to be heard.So let me wrap them in a point form and maybe a lilttle examples. All of this are just to express my feeling to and my annoyed opinion over this damn little all-people-should-know things but-they-dont. And,one thing before i proceeded,i know we can just go buy: "why dont you just tell her?"
Yes,we can do that. But as i said earlier,it is not easy when our tolerances and consideration is taking part, meaning we ourself are holding it so that our words or worse; action wont do stupid. So here it comes the common sense when both parties has to show some consideration and take cognizance on other's need and so on. I hope my common tongue is understood by you guys.
Little issues
They are little,but if done continuosly and frequently,it means a person have to get a hold more actively, and it will get annoying and freaking curseable.
1. Do you have a roomate, now watch closely, is your roomate is a cleaner, organized person? Is her place tidy? And how about you? Are you a totally opposite? If yes,you should do some cleaning and tidy up you part a bit. This is the most basic things if we are sharing room or space with someone. Be considerate. Throw away your garbage,make your bed,put things at their places. Please. Make the room seems structured.
2. Do your roomate make her bed every morning, Does she land on them after she make them? Nope? If nope,i bet she's keeping them tidy on the day. If she ever land on them, i bet she will make it tidy after. isnt it? So, please freaking tidy up the bed sheets after you sit or use her bed! Duhh,this is annoying,i'm considering a bed as a personal space for everbody,no one should be near it. But yes if they are close friends i understood that but please make it as tidy as you first sit on it.
3. Now,if you frequently sleep over at someone's room. Be considerate. I repeat, FREQUENTLY. Like 3-4 days in a week. If yes, are you using her personal desk? Her bed? If yes please be considereate. The owner may want to use her space but she is holding them to please you as the guest but this is basic.The desk and bed provided in a dorm is fixed for the number of occupants in the dorm, dont use them like you are the only one who have a work to be done and in need of the desk. and bed. You can use them if they offered you,but after a long time,they might want to use them back. A desk is a personal workspace for me and i'm a desk girl who sits on her own desk evryday doing works. Not on bed, not on floor,rarely. And if someone using my desk in time when i need them,its gonna be a shit momment, and i need my desk almost every time.
4.Toilet. Clean them too if you are using them too. What the hell is so wrong about peoples nowdays? At least once in a week why not volunteer urself to clean the toilet. Dah la taknak cuci toilet,dah aku kasi cuci sinki bersih bersih ada pulak bahan sisa yang kau tinggalkan dalam sinki lepas tu.Aku pun tolong la kutip balik tak cakap dengan kau sebab aku dah pernah cakap tapi kau ulang lagi.Tak apa selagi kesabaran masih ada. Takkan benda kecil pun nak kena ajar? Duduk dengan family kau macam mana lah agaknya?
If i were to make a list, it might be a long list. Just close the light when you dont need them, sweep the floor when you have free time,wash you dishes..asap, hang your clothes properly instead of dumpig them everywhere.take care of your hygene, put things in their place and order,be organized. That's it. It is not a big complicated thing but i dont know why,it's just like these little things never bother them. Such irresponsible.I might try to use a not so subtle actions in regards of this matter after this. Some of the issue i have deal directly by words with the related party,but they seems to repeat it. So here you go, a big enermous "irresponsible" stamp on your forehead.No picture in this post,not suite to current mood :p
So good luck guys,be an awesome lads and commit something to your circle.
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