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How to get over it? (It here refer to him actually ;p)
So i'm writting this post to share my opinion on how can i actually put a little strategies to shove off this uninvited condition and act like it is nothing.Hmm,it's hard for me to explain but i hope you guys can understand the situation. Girls especially. This guy is kind and he had teached me for modelling 3d objects several times and we had worked together in a group last two semesters. That is when i started to feel weird. But please, for many reasons i dont think i should be. May Allah ease the path for me.
So what do i do is shopping!! ;p Haha. It is absolute solution for me, i would like to have new stuffs to look and care for. Lol. Sound childish isnt? I bought clothes, stationaries, fiction and non-fiction books and a book of sudoku game. Some of the items were bought using the BB1M. But still, my money, oh i really need to go on a money-diet. But then in other hand, i can spend my time on those books and make myself busy. Yeah way to go! I did shop till i drop!
Apart from that, i bought the 'on-my-own' ring. A common silver ring that i bought as a mark that i dont want to be 'bother' and i would like keep myself in this way for now. Have u heard the old trick about wearing a ring? It is said that, if a women wear a ring they have been officially taken, so no other guys can ask the girl out anymore. In my case, i wear a ring not because i'm taken but because i like to think that i'm on my own. It is like saying 'do not have any attraction to me and i too would not have any attraction to you' in a wordless way. I shared the purpose of buying that ring with a friend of mine, and unexpectedly, she revealed to me that she had been using the very same trick for the same purpose. Lol.
So what do i do is shopping!! ;p Haha. It is absolute solution for me, i would like to have new stuffs to look and care for. Lol. Sound childish isnt? I bought clothes, stationaries, fiction and non-fiction books and a book of sudoku game. Some of the items were bought using the BB1M. But still, my money, oh i really need to go on a money-diet. But then in other hand, i can spend my time on those books and make myself busy. Yeah way to go! I did shop till i drop!
Besides, i read somewhere that we can get over someone by having crush on someone else. I personally think it's true. But the point is,we are gonna repeat 'love(ish) feeling-hate you feeling- love back for someone else-hate back' cycle. Hehe. It's gonna hurt even more. So for now, i'll just try as good as possible to be confident on what i'm doing without thinking about this matter. Gonna let my world revolve without him around. And tonight chelsea score 6-0 against Arsenal.
Other tips that i find usefull is giving a compliment to anyone or even a stranger. I did it. I met a stranger at the book sale and she has a nice cardigans,really nice with soft material and pastel turqoise colour. I asked her where did she bought the cardigans because it is really nice i told her. ;) She replied shyly and said thank you for the compliment. Giving a compliment to a stranger somehow give me a positive mood and aura but i dont really know how it's working. Maybe because we talk to a new person and smile is a must. So how about trying to give at least one compliment to anyone everyday?
Crush or limerence?
There are fine line between crush and limerence because both of them is so near to the feelling of love. Limerence is where we feel like super happy if the limerent object give us their attention but at the same time, we would be so painful right in the heart if they did not notice or give us their attention to the extend that we have to massage our chest a little. Been there, done that. As for crush, we'll often think of them in a way that we and our crush end up together at the end of the story. I think mine is limerence, which is another reason why i should not let this feeling have its root deeper within myself. >;)
I wish i could write more. Pheww. Please apologise me for any grammar and spelling mistake; English is my second languange. So that's all for now and i'll write again when the time is right. Goodbye dear readers!
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